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Oh these girls. I never imagined I’d have girls- plural. Maybe one girl, but not more than one. I always envisioned our family being full of boys, just as both of our families are, and many of the generations of families are that come before ours. To be completely honest, I kind of wanted it that way too - it's what I've always known.


However, one summer day, when I pregnant with Abby, I could feel God changing me, placing this tenderness on my heart and whispering to me that I don’t make the plans, he does.


I could tell that I needed to make a shift, that my heart wasn't in the right place, and that he was going to be working change in me. It wasn't that I didn't ever want a girl, I had just been so convinced for so long that we would have a boy first.


Then, two girls?! Sisters are a new concept in our family. 3 boys, 1 girl. 5 boys, 1 girl. Even both of my parents sibling sets are made up of boys (plural) and one girl.


Can I just say that God's plans are always better than our own? I've always known that, but he proves it to me everyday. These two girls have brought such a fresh perspective and tenderness to our family that somedays is hard for me to even grasp. It has been such a gift to raise them. To experience the tenderness, giggles, hugs, and bond they share has brought so much joy, that I never knew was possible. I can't wait to have a front row seat to their friendship (and arguments) over the next several years.


I just LOVE to look at how God designs every family so uniquely. There is no perfect family structure, not one that is better than others. He just knows, and he has it all planned out. His plans are far better than our daydreams. So mom's of all boys - yay you, keep raising those boys into gentlemen! Sweet boys are my favorite (especially the 9 and 10 year old type). ;) Mom's of all girls - you inspire me. I'll be looking to you for advice. And mom's of both blessings, in a variety of birth orders, I can't wait to join you in that venture. I'll have to start by switching my lingo from "the girls" to "the kids."



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